It has happened again but this time it was water off of a ducks back,.... 

I was checking mail in the lobby and coming back up on the elevator and luckily had my camera videotaping. As the elevator doors opened,.... Nick (Tonyas son) was standing there. I held my phone up enough that he would know I was videotaping. I got off the elevator and started walking down the hall to my unit. And he couldn't not do it,... he shouted a nasty comment. When I played it back you can hear him shout something, you just can't make out what.

But this time,... I smiled. Because now I find it humorous. This 20 yr old boy who lives with Mommy in a tiny 2 bdrm apartment in social housing and doesn't work is thinking he is tough because he shouts nasty comments to a woman forty years his senior - who did nothing and said nothing to him. Maybe,.... get a life???? Get a job? Go to school? Now I just see him for who he is. A lost kid going nowhere being looked after by his mommy. Thats not a man,.... He needs to re-evalute his morals. I don't find this kid a threat at all. I am sad for him. His mom has turned him into a little bitch. I just hide,... but someday,... someone bigger than me is going to talk back or worse. Right now this kid picks on old ladies (yup - I am an old lady - 61!) and he thinks he is being tough. 

Nick,... why don't you try mouthing off to someone your own age and size? Then maybe you might get whats coming to you. Because picking on old ladies makes you look like the low-life you are. Only people who feel inadequate about themselves behave in the way you do. Not real men. Just because your Mom thinks its ok - doesn't make it alright. Go pick on someone your own age and size next time little boy. Because you just make me shake my head and wonder when I see you now. I know exactly where you'll end up in life. Living with mommy and her taking care of you,.... 

This not letting it get to you is awesome,... I am Elso ~ Letting it go,....