Friday, December 19, 2025

Missing my girls

Another storm has rolled in. I was hoping to get out today as I am desperate for groceries. But looking out my window I can see that I am not going anywhere today. And the forecast has snow falling for the next 3 days,... *** sigh *** I dont think I'm getting out now until the new year. (my cupboards are bare!) So instead I am once again cooped up inside going stir crazy. I am an outdoor girl. I want trees and water and fresh air,... I feel so claustraphobic locked up in this apartment all the time. 

I saw this post on Facebook the other day. I am not a huge Lily Allen fan although I do like her. That is not the reason that this post caught my attention. It caught my eye because it brought back a lot of old memories. I would love to to go to this concert. But I would only go with one person in this world. And that is Hayley. We used to have so much fun with Lily Allens songs. I used to live in St. Thomas Ontario and I would drive to Tottenham to pick Hayley up for the weekend on Friday, and bring her back to my place. Then we would do it all over again in reverse on Sunday. So we spent hours and hours in the car driving as it was a 4 hour round trip there and back. To fill those hours we would listen to music. One of the things I love so much about Hayley is her love of music ~ just like me. And together we had a lot of fun singing along at the top of our lungs to music while we travelled. Lily's music is very upbeat and the lyrics are cheeky and fun. We just had a ball enjoying it. So when I saw this post on Facebook, I felt sad. Hayley and I used to be so close,.... now,... she won't even talk to me.

I downloaded her new album anyway. I guess I will just have to enjoy it alone,... But I'll be thinking of Hayley when I sing along,...

I don't write much about the cats on here as this blog is mainly my morning stress dump. Everything I write is negative. But I plan it that way. I just get whatever is bothering me off of my chest so I can face the day with a clean slate. And the cats have not been a stress so I haven't written about them. But just to update,... they are great. They are more than great. They give me what I was seeking,... companionship. They are completely spoiled rotten. They have the best food,... the best treats,.... and I have already spent over $3500.00 in vet bills to give them a good healthy start to their lives. They are my world now.

I know pets ~ as I have had many ~ and I knew they were going to be wild at times. Any pet owner - dog or cat - knows all about the zoomies,... and these cats get them multiple times a day. But instead of stressing,... I just have the apartment set up so nothing is of value so they can't break anything to upset me. My livingroom is basically a cat cafe'. Theres hardly anything of mine in here,... it's all cat stuff. So when they get the zoomies, I can sit and laugh at them instead of worrying they will rip my place apart. They are such a joy to have around. If one isn't making me giggle, the other one is. I do not regret getting 2 ot them. Infact I'm glad I did. Other than it being twice the cost,... it's also half the work as they entertain themselves so all I have to do is watch and enjoy. I am so glad I got my Murphy and Molly ~ M & M,....

Molly is obsessed with my bathroom sink
Murphy chillin'





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